Often times, women wonder if they are the only woman in the life of their man or if they are at least the most important woman in the life of their man. Women want to be and remain the Main Chic in their relationship while they wait for the man to pop the question.
Are you wondering if you are the main Chic or side chic? Are you feeling suspicious of his recent behaviors? Do you think another woman is occupying your rightful space? We have complied a list of signs that you are not the main chic.
He Never Shows you off
Men are egotistic and they love to mark and own their territory, they do not hesitate to announce that they got you and have you locked down for real as theirs. When your man does not show you off, not to friends, not to family or even followers on ANY social media platform despite having a strong, thriving presence online. There is a case to be made for private men who love to keep their business private—While we can appreciate their low-key spirit, to lead a private life, minding their business, we can also agree that it’s a bit unusual, even suspicious to love a whole woman for about six months to a year without anyone knowing about it.
If he’s not introducing you to his world – real or virtual – there’s every need to question that man and his intentions.
If your man really never shows you off, you have the right to be bothered. Men make sure to show off their Main Chic.
Limited time with you.
Does he come up with all sorts of excuses to not spend special moments with you? Even on special days? Then you should be a lot more suspicious.
If he’s regularly coming up with excuses to miss all of the special days, well, chances are that he needs to be with the real one.
No matter how well he treats you, side chics are still side chics– a distraction from whatever commitment he already made to another woman.
You should ask questions when you feel you are not getting the right kind of energy off your man.
Overly Guarded With His Phone.
Ok, this is some sort of hot potato when it comes to relationships generally. The issue of phones, passwords, gadgets and privacy will always generate divided opinions, of course.
However, there is an undeniable secrecy you’ll sense when someone is trying to hide something. Is he deleting call history, changing passwords frequently, guarding his phone like nuclear codes?
There’s a chance that you’re likely the side chic.
Withholding Financial Commitment.
What a man loves, he takes care of. It is no news that single men only invest their finances on the woman that they find worthy of their commitment. If your man is nonchalant towards your financial needs and makes little or no financial commitments whatsoever to your well being even when he has all the means? Sis, you are the Side Chic. Main Chics Steady Enjoy Bank Credit Alerts.
If and when you eventually find out, that you are a side chic, leave the relationship. Stay woke Queens, know your worth, you deserve to the be the Only Woman in the life of your man. Even being the Main Chic is not acceptable, you are a Queen, Only Woman or nothing!
Stay woke, Queens.